My coworkers are probably sick of hearing me talk about running a marathon. Look, okay, running a marathon doesn’t suddenly make you a better person, you’re not “holier than thou.” I will tell you this, though–it teaches you an incredible amount about YOURSELF and what YOU are capable of. Sometimes it takes 26.2 miles of pain to figure sh*t out. Oh yeah, there’s a little bit about running that you learn about thrown in there too (like don’t wear gear you’ve never worn before on race day, don’t forget to bring warm up sweats when your race is at the end of November and you’re the only idiot walking around in shorts in 35F weather before the race actually starts, and don’t just “wing it,” your body will thank you later), but mostly, it teaches you about life.
1. COMMITMENT AND DEDICATION ARE THE PILLARS OF SUCCESS. You have to really be committed to the goal of finishing a 26.2 mile race. I love the quote, “Do or do not, there is no try,” because you are either going to finish the race, or you aren’t, plain and simple. Who the hell gets satisfaction in walking away saying, “Yeah, well, I tried to run a marathon.” Injuries aside, you are going to be the one to ultimately decide whether or not YOU are going to cross that finish line. Can you envision it? Is the goal greater than the momentary doubt or pain?
2. YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK. I have NEVER felt so much continued pain in my body before. Hours of pounding pavement is absolutely killer on the joints. By the time I reached mile 20, I was really, really spent. I thought about giving up so many times, but I kept thinking about crossing the finish line and about why I was even running the race to begin with. Wasn’t it to prove a point to MYSELF that through willpower all things are possible? And if that’s not enough, think of all the people, good and bad, that were there along the way–the naysayers, the people who supported you, the people who hurt you, and the people who ran alongside you through the pain–think about them too.
3. DON’T SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE. This is perhaps the most important lesson I learned. Since YOU have put in the time and the effort, you have pushed past the pain and torn down the walls of doubt, you know what it takes to be extraordinary, you know that success means being better than you were before, and we all have the ability to be better within us. Don’t make excuses, don’t accept excuses. You will never succeed by taking either action, you will only be holding yourself back..
4. CHANGE IS POSSIBLE. If after touching down in Japan 2.5 years ago, someone would have come up to me and said, “You’re going to run a marathon 2.5 years from now,” I would have laughed in their face. I had never run more than 5 miles in my entire life. Why would I even waste my time doing something ridiculous like that? Well, because sometimes the things we once see as “ridiculous” and “impossible” suddenly become important to us, and as I learned how to push past pain I understood what it meant to change. It was a long, slow process from within that required the aforementioned commitment and dedication. Change isn’t easy, but it is possible, and it allows us to grow.
5. BE GRATEFUL. You have a body that allows you to absolutely feel what it means to be alive–everything that you are made up of is working together intricately, allowing your body to run the race. Be grateful you have the opportunity to do so.
Run for those that matter, run for those that don’t, because in the end you are going to have made the good ones proud and you will have left the bad ones 26.2 miles behind.
“It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.” -Da Vinci